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What’s your Why?

When you start a health journey, or business– there will be days where you don’t feel like showing up. Maybe your bed is more cozy than getting up to change into workout clothes. Maybe sipping coffee slowly and watching a replay of The Real Housewives after the kids go off to school sounds better than plugging into your online business.

Well in either cases, you need a WHY to help you do the hard things, to help you show up day after day even when you may not feel like it.

My reason for living a healthy lifestyle is twofold. My first reason is I lost my Mom early in life. She was 53 and I was 21. It rocked my world. I gained 40 pounds and a bunch of anxiety. When I finally started to work on me with exercise and eating better, I had re-gained that spark of who I was before I had lost her. I found confidence and happiness within again. I felt so good that I wanted to pay that forward to help others. So now health and fitness is my career. But everyday the reason why I get up out of bed to workout, and why I choose to eat whole foods in my day is because I know what it felt like to NOT feel good. There’s NO way I am going back. There’s also a lot of disease that runs in my family, so I need to combat anything that I am dispositioned to if I can have a say in it!

My reason for showing up for my online business each day is twofold too. Gosh, I can’t just have an EASY one-line answer huh? My first reason is my Mom. She was a successful business woman who taught me to go after my dreams, goals, not be afraid of change and make big leaps when she left her nursing job after 25+ years to go into medical sales. I know she would be proud of me today for starting my own business and following my dreams and heart. My other reason is of course my family of three- my boys. I have two young boys and an older boy (my husband LOL). He’s four years younger than me, so he’s not old– I AM! But I want to spend time with them and not be in a corporate job 8-5 with a commute. I want to be able to take them on trips and create new memories and experiences with them. I want them to see how hard work pays off by creating a life that has more freedoms than an office job or a job at the gym. I am currently creating that right now and they have seen some doses of it and keep asking me when I get to this point, can we go do x, y, and z. For me, being able to work from home and be flexible to get my kids to school, to volunteer on their fieldtrips, to be at home when they return for the day and to shuffle them off to sports is a HUGE reason to do the hard things during the day. Nothing worth having comes easy, so that’s why my business is important to me and I take it seriously.

So dig deep, find that WHY. Put a picture up to remind you of it every.single.day! And once it becomes a routine you won’t question showing up or not, it will become WHO you are and you will keep crushing those goals and dreams because we all know consistency pays off!

My family in the Bahamas March 2019.
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Mind over Matter

MINDSET.

It can truly make the difference— build us to be #ToughAsNails or stressed and resentful.

I look back to my days where my mindset was different- I loathed my corporate america days and dreaded going, resented being stuck in a living paycheck-to-paycheck (with accruing debt) place, being stressed with all the things I had on my plate- the pressure of deadlines or living up to certain expectations of people in the 8-5 grind. After my Mom passed away, I spent years being angry. I was jealous at other Moms/daughters. As a Mom myself later with babies, I often started out days stressed with a toddler and a colicky newborn who cried all day and didn’t sleep at night. I didn’t know how to see life as not-stressful until I changed my MINDSET.

In my 40s, I have learned to change my MIND and take my power back!

Now my life is actually ten-times busier as a Mom, business lady, landlord, Personal Trainer, volunteer at school and CEO of the house. But I wake up each morning with GRATITUDE. The weather doesn’t bother me (can’t change that). Yes when my kids and I have a bad day together, I am able to shake it off and give myself grace and be thankful that I have kiddos and love in my life. Those things used to set the tone for my day and bring me down. I no longer hold onto any negative comments from others, and can tunnel my energy away from the things that don’t serve me and appreciate the good…even on days where life feels heavy.

So choose thankful over resentful. Choose happy over stress. It truly is about mindset. I wake up and choose exercise six days a week as the first thing I do when I get out of bed because I CAN. Not everyone can actually move their body. I chose to love the house that’s filled with little boy giggles (and sometimes fights). The house that keeps me warm and safe- and not pick on the things I don’t enjoy (yep the walls need painting and things need updating but oh well maybe someday). The mess means there’s people in it, my house isn’t lonely (like it was in the past as a single gal in the 20s). I am able to see the good in each day. Yep it was snowy and cold today– but that makes me appreciate a warm coat, a fireplace and hot coffee. It’s up to ME to make the best of my life, and if there’s things I don’t like I can work to change them.

This took me time, I haven’t always been able to do this– but  I am here to remind you that you can protect yourself by working on a strong mind each day. That will help you be strong as a rock, will get you to see the good and will truly make all the difference in perspective.

Life can be hard, but let’s not make it HARDER. Let’s work on protecting our own minds and hearts– because the things that we cannot control (b.s that happens, the weather, the life events that are tough to get through) will happen regardless. But we can control our minds and if we are #toughasnails we will be able to get through them so much better.

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My Mess Became My Message

This is a story about a girl who lost her Mom when she was 21. This girl is me.
My Mom was diagnosed with Stage 4 Ovarian Cancer when I was 18.

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I didn’t really know what stage 4  meant- it didn’t sound good, but she also downplayed it as something they would just remove and then take care of with chemo. So I listened. I was applying for colleges and picking out what school I would go to, I tried to stay occupied.
Over four years, I watched her beat cancer three times. In the end, it came back fast and furious.
No child should have to go through being a caretaker, helping her change a colostomy bag, seeing her on an IV (we called it lurch) because she couldn’t keep food down, seeing her doubled over in pain daily, having an ambulance come because a lung collapsed.

Every day I was WORRIED SICK about her. In her final month, she went to the hospital and never made it home. I had a hard time going that last month because I couldn’t face reality. So I carried a lot of guilt for not seeing her as much as I should have. On her last day, I had the morning shift with at the hospital, and a few hours after I left she passed away. I knew she couldn’t go with me there, there is no way I could handle that. In her last month, she could barely look at me because she was worried about me. Being the baby of the family by 7 years, the one who still lived at home (in the summer), the one who didn’t have a job, or have a house— would I be ok with a year of college left and an unknown future? But that day, I told her she was the Best Mom, that I would figure life out, and that she could go if she needed to. A few hours later she did.

There is NO DOUBT in my mind, that I had to take YEARS to heal from this. I struggled with anxiety, I had suicidal thoughts (after another personal loss the following year). I lost a ton of weight and then gained 40. I emotionally ate. I drank. I spent money I didn’t have. I had insomnia. I self medicated with sleep aids, sometimes alcohol and for sure food. A few years later, I then realized it wasn’t me- I didn’t feel good, she wouldn’t want this for me and either did I! I caught the downward spiral before it got worse. But I had a good job, good friends, a home. Life wasn’t bad, I was just lost and struggling a bit.

So I stopped bad habits. I formed new ones. I fell in love with running as a stress reliever. I joined a gym. I didn’t go out as much. I lost weight, I found my passion in fitness and then started to help people. My anxiety got better, I know how to deal with it now. I sleep better. I eat whole foods, I workout 6 days a week now at home. I have one or two glasses of wine a week. I surround myself with people who are positive, I read personal development and do the things that serve me,
Say no to the things I don’t.

I am not perfect. I am just someone who really values health and feeling good. I know what it’s like to not feel good so it’s motivation for me to keep making ME a priority, even as a busy Mom and entrepreneur. If you wonder why the heck does that girl post about her workouts, or talk about health– it’s because it has saved me, it helps me be stronger version of me inside and out and I want to help spread that to others. Me feeling strong on the outside helps me to feel very strong on the inside too!

And for all you cancer warriors out there, everyday I think about you and fight for you. With all the advancements in medicine now and earlier detection, there are so many warriors that beat it and you will too!

So my message for you today is: Push past the past you, your mess becomes your message, you can overcome the hurdles and the pain. You can come out stronger, better. It takes strength, courage and the desire to change. You’ve got this. If I can do it, so can you!

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Perspective

Life is unfair.

Like legit unfair.

Today I attended the wake of a friend.
She has two boys and I met her at the YMCA where I worked for years.
She always told me that I was her (just ten years behind). My boy raising stories were just like hers. Besides raising boys, we both shared a love for fitness. I was drawn to her laugh, smile, energy, positivity, and the way she raved about her family. I also loved that she was passionate as I am a firm believe in living out your passions in life. Nancy sure lived live to the fullest, and one of my greatest memories was meeting up with her at a Green Bay Packers game and doing a toast to her favorite team. Man did she love her Packers (so my hubby and her obviously connected too). 

So as my boys and I attended the wake tonight, which I am still in shock about…..I realized that life’s twists and turns do not have to have a reason or make sense. There is NO reason these boys lost their Mom so soon, that I did at their same ages, or that all of us go through heart-wrenching pain in life at times. But I do know it makes us have perspective. It makes us stronger in time.

So as I took my boys to dinner tonight afterwards, I vowed to continue to love them unconditionally, be their biggest cheerleader and fan, be at all of their events, to help them live their passions, to have energy to be with them everyday fully, to make memories and have fun with them— just like Nancy.
And I hope my guys continue to adore me just as her boys do.

Life is unfair. 💔

So no making sense or finding a reason for the things that simply do not or cannot have one. Things don’t always happen for a reason.

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Healthy Vacation Hacks

I used to go on vacation and come back so bloated, and not happy with the jump in the scale. But in the last three years, I have learned how to really enjoy vacation but not go too crazy and come home the exact same! I work hard, and I really don’t want a vacation to blow my health goals, and I also want to enjoy and not be too strict on vacation either. Here are my top TIPS:

  1. ) Bring a water bottle. I fill it up every chance I get- at the airport, at the hotel. If I am in a third world country I find water bottles and fill it up. You have to stay hydrated and it helps keep your digestion going while traveling too which can get really messed up.
  2. ) Bring healthy snacks. My favorite snacks to pack with me are: almonds, almond butter packets (Justin’s brand sells them in singles), Shakeology (never miss a day), and Rx bars. This will help fill the gaps in the day if you only eat breakfast/dinner when traveling or keep you from starving and then grabbing something bad!
  3. ) Exercise. I always, always exercise. I stream 30-min workouts on my laptop or phone (reach out to me if you want to know how to do this). I bring running shoes as I love to explore new places with a run. I can try out their gym, or see if the resort offers classes. Heck, I even teach my own classes. You can always find exercise options while traveling! It’s important to move your body each day.
  4. ) Fill up on proteins and veggies. At each meal, I fill up on protein and veggies. I stay away from the breads, donuts, carbs and extra sugar….BUT I do save it for a few of my favorite things like wine with dinner and maybe a shared dessert. I don’t go crazy at buffets– keeping my protein and veggie rule. I just don’t feel good when I go crazy, so I am super mindful and then choose my splurges and limit them.
  5. ) I don’t eat or drink late at night. I don’t eat after dinner. I don’t have drinks past 9pm, that’s just me. I can’t sleep at night when I drink late, and then I am super tired the next day. So happy hour and dinner are my wine-o-clock time and after that it’s water.
  6. ) Sleep. I always aim for 7-8 hours of sleep on vacation. I am not the best sleeper in hotels or away, especially the first night but I try my best to get enough rest. It usually means that on vacation I go to bed at 10:30/11 and I am up at 6:30 or 7. I am not a sleep-in late kinda gal so I can’t pull a past midnight bedtime or again, I’ll be super tired and crabby the next day. So know your body and get your allotted sleep!

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Week two strong

My week and a half journey into my new eating plan has me feeling ah-mazing.

It’s crazy how when I have a plan and people to hold me accountable, I can succeed and reach my goals! I mean I’m not quite there, but I know I will be as I am seeing and feeling great results with this. I am eating more protein, more fats, more veggies and less carbs, no sugar right now. I eat 3 meals a day, all are 500 calories. It’s filling and tasty. My eating window is 10-6pm each day.

It’s a little of an adjustment getting used to waiting until 10am to eat, after a 6am workout but my body is learning to adjust. I like shutting down the kitchen at 6pm and being done for the night- just hot tea and water. It’s crazy how we “think” we are hungry, but really we eat out of boredom or bad habit.

There’s a lot of power in a group to hold you accountable– so if you need to make some changes feel free to reach out. I am happy to help you on your journey.

 

xoxo,

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My High-Fat/Low Carb Life Week 1

This week I embarked on the start of a 12-week journey. One that is very different from my current way of eating. This plan has me consuming more proteins, fats and taking out carbs. I am also eating within an 8-hour window and fasting for 16 hours, which is intermittent fasting. This basically will help me use fat for fuel instead of carbs/glycogen. I usually do my workouts fasted, but then I eat right after. For this, I will wait until 10am each day to break my fast.

I am excited to see what happens in the 12-weeks, and with a trip to Jamaica and the holidays in there. 🙂 I know it will be great for me- to not only get rid of my Candidaistis symptoms but to teach me more about fitness, nutrition and my body.

The first day wasn’t an issue moving my eating window, or not eating carbs. The second day I was a little woozy at about 9/9:30am before my 10am breakfast time– but I stayed busy and had water and coffee (without anything added to break the fast.) My body felt much better today, so I am getting used to this new schedule and filling up on healthy meals that are keeping me satisfied. It’s nice to get rid of the mindless snacking and eating at night after dinner- something I haven’t quite been able to do on my own lately. Those habits seem to sneak back in. It’s funny how we let habits just creep back in, but when we have a plan and the accountability we can stick to it long term! There’s power in accountability!

Will this be the plan for me long-term? Who knows. It’s worth a try. I have access to professionals who are leading me through it (one doctor, one celebrity trainer, one who has written a book on this way of eating and one who has been eating this way for years while raising a family of four kiddos). I figure I can’t pass up the opportunity to learn and grow. Will it be hard? Yes. Will it challenge me? Yes. But there are SO many more things out there that are HARD. Not eating my favorite splurges or having wine is NOT the end of the world. It’s 12-weeks. It will help me to feel really good. There are people out there suffering from diseases, so this is NOT that hard. 🙂 It’s all a mindset and perspective.

I’m excited to see what happens as just on the third day I have dropped some bloat and puffiness from my mid-section that has been there for a while with my Candidiasis! Stay tuned….IMG_4102

 

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My A.C Life….

Welcome to my A.C life– my journey of beating the overgrowth of Candida. We all have candida in our body- a bad bacteria that is amongst the good bacteria to keep our PH balance. However, if the bad overgrows the strong it can cause some serious issues to your health and gut. You can get this by taking antibiotics (which happened to me), or leading a life with a lot of sugar, alcohol, stress or even diabetes.

I had a lot of symptoms over the past few months that haven’t made any sense- fatigue, like bad. I had major digestion issues, so uncomfortable and caused me a lot of pain. Brain fog- not able to concentrate AT ALL. I even had heart rate/breathing issues. My muscles were so heavy, my runs were two minutes slower a mile- no joke. I had NO idea what was wrong with me. I tried changing my workouts, I stopped running and did weights. I ate more, I ate less, I rested more. Nothing was working.

I finally saw the color of my tongue change to more of a white, and knew something was not right so that’s how I discovered it was the overgrowth of Candida. Many have this condition and don’t know, as doctors may not know much about it or how to treat it properly.

I did tons of research and chatted with a few people, and decided to take my own route for now on beating it. It’s all diet-based. Candida likes sugar and starchy carbs, and that’s what causes all the symptoms because the more of that you have the more it grows. No wonder why I was having so many cravings- I thought it was because of running season. 🙂

I have changed to all lean protein (grass-fed/organic), veggies, healthy fats eating regimen to help kill off the candida overgrowth. I hear it takes 30 days and then you need to be careful on introducing some foods back in, as it could come back. I am being careful. It’s a huge change for me to not eat fruits, carbs right now but after 9 days I am feeling SO much better. That to me is motivation to keep going. It’s my “new” normal. Yes it’s hard to pass up certain things that I enjoy, but when it’s about my health- I am determined to do what I can. On top of my family, there’s nothing I value more than good health (if I can help it!)

I’ll show you my progress pictures later this week just to share how much the inflammation has gone down in the past nine days.

I am Candida strong– nothing will get me down, if I can help it! Keep fighting the good fight– for your health. There may be bumps in the road, but it’s all a part of YOUr journey. It makes you unique, and hopefully I can help others who may go through this at some point in their life.

Adios Candida!

 

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Seasons of Change!

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Just like in the Fall, the leaves are letting go of anything that is not serving them– do you do this as well?

I think the Fall is a great way to look at your life and see what doesn’t serve you.

-Are your relationships healthy? (Can you let go of any that aren’t)

-How is your time management? (Is there anything that you can say no to)

-How is your health routine? (do you need to cut out bad habits, get back into working out regularly, stop the never-ending splurges and get back to feeling good)

-Do you feel happy? (Assess what may be bringing you down and make a plan to change it)

-Do you spend enough quality time with kiddos and spouse? (if not, make time for that to happen this Fall).

We only have ONE life. It gets busy. We get complacent. We go through the motions with our to-do list, sometimes executing without heart and feeling robotic. Now is the time to evaluate anything that doesn’t serve you and LET IT GO.

I am vowing to spend more quality time with family- no screens, no distractions. Making date night a priority. I am saying NO to doing things that don’t serve me and I’m honoring my commitments. I am also dialing in my nutrition ten-fold. No more splurges, I am in a group where I have to pay $5 for each splurge. I will save up for a glass of wine on an event night on the weekend, but other than that– all real, clean, whole foods. I was rewarded a trip to Jamaica in December for my hard work this year of helping people, and I have some goals that I have yet to get to since my summer vacation that threw me off-track. I know what I need to do, so it’s time to really get serious.

Take a moment today to make a list of the things you can change this Fall- with your health, your mindset, your time, your routine and make sure you are DOING something about it. No more wishing, it’s time to take action!

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Saying NO means saying YES to YOU!

Fall is our busy season. You know, each family has “seasons” where they are more busy than others (typically, although for some it’s year round). Fall is ours, and again in Spring. In Fall, we have both boys in different sports, so every night of the week we are off to practice or a game. My husband travels and this year it is five trips within two months. Throw in a kiddo birthday, a handful of weekend commitments, relatives coming to town, a sickness, a contractor here in early Sept and it all adds up to be A LOT! You all can relate because we all have “seasons”.

One of my ways of handling all that life throws at me during this season (and really all seasons because it’s who I am and what’s important to me) is to make sure my health is a priority– mentally, physically and emotionally. What does this mean? It means the following are NOT an option to get moved off my priority list:

Daily Exercise (in the form of my at-home programs in my basement or maybe teaching Cycle or taking a run).

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Eating clean (saving for some of my fav splurges like wine, So Delicious Cashew Ice Cream or Dark Chocolate and PB cups),

Sleeping 7-8 hours (yes I am OK with going upstairs at 10pm, or being the first one to leave a party on a weekend because if I don’t sleep everything goes downhill). I don’t sleep in. Mornings are the best part of my day. I get up and workout at 6am every day, 6:45 or 7 on Saturday. I am NOT an night-owl as I can’t sleep in. The only way I feel rested, recharged and able to tackle all that I do is if I sleep about 10:30-6.

ME Time (which may be a bath, a walk, catching a favorite show like “This is Us”). It’s easy to not have time for this, but I now carve out that time even if it’s 10 minutes).

 

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I am a firm believe that we have to take care of ourselves to be able to go at mock 10 speed and give to everyone else. If my cup isn’t filled, nobody’s cup can be filled because I am empty.

Some weeks are tougher, and I may not be able to answer phone calls or touch base with friends but I know that when I come up for air I’ll be able to catch up and that everyone understands. I am making ME a priority, on top of my family and that’s what matters!

So, I am here to remind you that saying NO means saying YES to you. It’s ok if you don’t do your extra volunteering this busy season, or you say no to a dinner out, or you have to pass on an invitation on the weekend.

Sometimes when life is busy, we need to squeeze every second of time that we have to just feel centered and breathe so that we can keep up with the “season”. True friends will understand, and so will those that also are in tune with themselves enough to know that it’s important to take care of yourself when you are busy being there for everyone else!

So cheers to saying NO, and saying YES to you. Just like trees that are turning colors this season; they are changing and getting ready to let go of anything weighing them down. It’s ok for you to let go of anything weighing you down in your “season” so you can focus on the right things to keep up with it all and also maintain your own health & sanity!